When someone is grieving, flowers fade within a week and cards go into a drawer. A memorial blanket stays. It is something to wrap around your shoulders on the hard evenings, to keep on the sofa, or to fold at the end of a bed. With a name, dates and a few words on it, it becomes a quiet place to remember.
This guide covers what to write, which size to choose, and how to give it.
What to write on a memorial blanket
Most memorial blankets have three parts:
- The name. Use the name the family actually used: "Grandma Rose" may mean more than a full legal name.
- The dates. Birth and passing years ("1948 – 2025") are the most common. Some people use a single meaningful date instead.
- A short message. Keep it to one line so it stays readable.
Short messages that work well:
- Always loved, always remembered
- Forever in our hearts
- Your love is still here
- Until we meet again
- Loved beyond words
If you are not sure, ask a close family member which phrase the person used often. Their own words are always the most personal choice.
Choosing a design
Memorial blankets usually look best soft and calm. Our Always Remembered blanket uses gentle pastel clouds and fine lettering, so it feels like a keepsake rather than a sign. The sample name in our photos is fictional; yours is printed exactly as you type it.
Which size to choose
- 3' × 4.5': a lap throw, good for an armchair or a child.
- 4' × 6': a sofa throw for one adult, and a good default for most people.
- 5' × 7.5': an oversized throw that covers a twin bed.
All sizes are 230 gr polyester-cotton polar fleece with overlocked edges, printed across the full surface.
When to give it
There is no wrong time. Some people send a memorial blanket in the first weeks after a loss. Others give it on a first birthday or anniversary without the person, or at the holidays, when an empty chair is felt most. A short handwritten note ("I thought you might want something soft to hold on to") says the rest.
Other ways to remember
A memorial blanket can also mark a pet's life, or a date that matters to a family: the night a couple met, for example. For those happier dates, a personalized star map blanket with names, a date and a city is a lovely alternative.
Every personalized piece is printed to order in 1 business day, and most U.S. orders arrive within 4–5 business days from the order date. Shipping is always free.